I was at the gym this a.m.. It’s packed with the usual suspects plus all the folks that are there driven by post holiday guilt or a new year’s resolution, which is pretty much the same thing in my books.
I feel bad for the folks just starting up because it looks so darn uncomfortable. I’ve been there. Once you’ve sat on your bum for a while not doing anything, it’s so hard to get going. And if you were just starting for the first time at 30 or 40-something, well i can’t imagine.
I saw a woman on the stepper and she was barely moving, like it was all in my head. Another woman had the resistance so high on the bike that she looked like she was in pain, hunched over the handlebars like someone was beating her with a stick. I wanted to say, girlfriend, you’ll get there! It doesn’t have to be today, lighten up on the resistance and have some fun with it! But I was too busy hunching over my own bike
The exercise pundits say that anything more active than being a total couch potato is good. Sure, the magic 3 times a week at some sort of intensity is awesome, but really any activity beats sitting on the couch listening to your arteries harden.
There was a bit in a recent Shape magazine where one of the women who lost a bunch of weight said that she found that being unhealthy and overweight is hard. Losing weight and getting healthy is Hard and maintaining all that too is Hard. So just pick your Hard.
I’ve been thinking about that. Life is often hard in ways that we don’t choose. Health issues come up, our loved ones, our pets and ourselves deal with difficult things. There’s plenty of Hard that we don’t get to pick. But I’ve also noticed that if I pick the Hard that allows me to take care of myself, there are plenty of long term benefits that make it less Hard, easy and enjoyable even.
That’s different from consuming a container of ice cream on the couch in front of Mad Men. That would be long-term Hard because I’d regret it in the morning. On the other hand, the Hard part of having salad for lunch is rinsing and cutting all those lousy veggies. After that it gets easy, the salad tastes good and I get to feel real Virtuous which beats regret hands down anyday.
And I guess that’s why I’m all for trying to take care of myself even though it’s Hard. If I can be fit enough then when I exercise it’ll be fun and give me a good endorphin rush. Maybe by picking the Eat Hard path it will become more and more of a habit and therefore less Hard to answer the “what am i going to eat??” question.
My hope is also that if I take care of myself then maybe I won’t have to deal as often with the Hard that I don’t choose, like health issues. There’s no guarantee of course that I’ll never get sick. But they seem to say that being active and eating your veggies are the two biggest things you can do to help your health. So any Healthy Hard choices I make is all gonna help.
And I have to say, as I look at the folks I know who are older than me, it seems to be pretty consistent. Those who have taken care of themselves have aged more gracefully than those that haven’t. It seems like you can do what you want and get away with it in your 20′s and 30′s but once you get to your 40′s and beyond, the results of your bad habits really come into play. And they’re much harder to turn around when you’ve picked Unhealthy Hard for that long.
And hey, i’m not a proponent of all-or-nothing on this health thing. I just believe in doing my best to minimize the lousy stuff and maximize on the healthy things where and when I can. All I can do is pick my Hard every day.