Around May 20th I read Finslippy’s blog and I was going to mention it here and then I didn’t.  I’ve always loved her writing, her birth story is the only one that’s ever made me laugh.

And then someone told me the other day that they’ve been having miscarriages and I realized that what she wrote was lodged in my head and that I better understand the dumbass things to avoid saying because I get it now, or at least as good as I could get it without going through it.  So better late than never. 

Start around the May 20th entry. Thank you Finslippy for bringing your awesome writing to something so difficult.